Everything is amess? help please?

1st remember this, you are only 14 and have so much more to live for right now than just boys! Trust me girl, those are the best years of your life and getting too wrapped up in a guy is not worth it. There are a million guys out there but only one of you, so live life now and God will put a guy in your life when the time is right! And when He does, you better believe that that guy will be totally worth it!! So have fun, be with the girls, and do the things you enjoy most while you still can!!!!