I have an emotional attachment to people but im scared it means im a lesbian?

My best guess is a problem with your relationship with your mum. Do you have a mum? Or if you do, do you have a good relationship with her? Cuz thinking of them as caring and looking after you might just be you craving something you don't have and only being able to find it in other people. And now your confused and you don't need to be. Your not attracted to women. You said that. If men have always turned you on, then the most likely always will. It seems like your just scared and have yourself all jumbled up. Just stop and think logically about it. Your not attracted to women so stop thinking you are. It's human to look at people. We all do it, even in the locker rooms. It happens. Don't freak yourself out. It will be okay.