Why have we made marriage so difficult?

Salam Do not be despair .Life is easy and marriage is not so difficult in Islam Allah has determined your spouse so you have to search her with maximum efforts at last you will find her.In Islam mahr or wedding gift should not make difficulty to the bride groom so Muhammad pbuh said it can be in the form of an iron ring.But in modern society there many muslims who are materialists so they hope to meet a rich and handsome guy Most of them are irreligious muslim women.You should keep be patient to find out the best one.